“Why would you ever tell me not to keep the house?”

September 23, 2024/in Women's /by BDSAdmin

Divorcing women ask me all the time: “Why would you advise me not to keep the house, post-divorce??” I could write a book on this. I’ll spare you that much reading here. But I’ll give you the highlights, so you can make your own decision.

I think my husband secretly has some expensive “hobbies.” Should I be concerned?

August 19, 2024/in Women's /by BDSAdmin

“I think my husband is spending a lot and not telling me. Is this cause for concern?” Short answer: Yes.

Now that I’m divorcing, everyone’s giving me financial advice. Who should I trust?

July 15, 2024/in Women's /by BDSAdmin

This is another one of those I-see-it-every-day scenarios. Everyone you know—friends, family, co-workers, people from church—will be giving you advice regarding your divorce, including the financial side. Every one of them will be well-intentioned. They have your best interests at heart.

What should you do when divorce hits you by surprise?

May 20, 2024/in Women's /by BDSAdmin

Are women ever blind-sided by the prospect of divorce? Unfortunately, yes. Certainly, no woman should ever get blind-sided by divorce. Aren’t there warning signs? And—topic of this article—if you get blind-sided, what should you do?